Selfish People

(I see so many chicks complain that they cant change their bfs or if they do, it's only temporary so this is for you guys)

Everyone is selfish but we all must also be courtious. Let's take example ur significant other (aka the #1 source of where any1 should look for for selflessness in another individual) We can safely assume (sometimes) that this person would generally lookout for ur best interests and be selfless toward you... I mean... that IS self explanatory isnt it? So supposedly you "love" this person and would "do anything" for them right? (Or at least it's easier said than done) Yet you find them constantly contradicting themselves... you grow impatient and sit here and wonder when they would snap out of it and realize they need to start changing a few things. It's not that you're selfish and want change "OR ELSE!!!", it's the fact that you care for the other person to want that change to happen for their own sake. Now we all know you simply cant tell someone to do something, so you're patient and wait for them to realize it on their own without putting pressure on any change. NOPE, doesnt happen, shows very well that they're selfish and most of their actions scream "Me me me, I lookout for #1!" You get fed up, confront them, and finally ask them, "Do this one thing for me." They do it.... for awhile (say 1-2 weeks) then revert back to their old selves again. They know they feel guilty for doing it, so their way of "not doing it" is to do it 50% or simply behind ur back.... *scratch head* in the end... they're STILL DOING IT!

Solution: Do NOT tolerate these mother fuckers. If they exhibit a trait you cannot live with, drop it like it's hot before you get burned. Otherwise, you might move on being a very pissed off person carrying tons of baggage into the next relationship. (however if it's already too late and u already exhibit this behavior, you can find other solutions on thesixthcents blogspot!)