Those that cannot take it or need it to be "watered down" subconsciously tell you that they are not succeptable to change. Please do not cry about it - In order to grow as a person, people must find their weaknesses. If I went around all day thinking I'm "hot shiet" not only am I delusional, but once I hit the "top"... there is only one way to go: DOWN. However, if you view your world as a learning experience and learn from your mistakes, you leave room for growth. "Why do we fall" to learn how to pick ourselves back up!
Techniques of the Thinking:
Lesson #1 - I call this the Free Mind Theory: one whom is unbiased and can evaluate the situation/argue points of views from both parties. Essentially, arguing is an art. There is no right or wrong, but the way a case is presented is what validifies the statement.
There are too many suck butts who tremble at the slightest remark or "attack" of their character and take it way too personal when it is simply constructive criticism. Of course telling someone that they are "stupid" will not help any situation, however some people freak out when they hear people say things such as, "I think you could do better in such and such by improving on such and such..." They immediately shut this person out and take it as a personal attack.
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